This is Part 2 of our Deep Throat
article. If you're looking for Part 1 (which includes steps 1 - 5 in
the deep throating process), you'll find it in our archives. But to get
you started on part 2, here's where we left off last time:
"Step six: Tongue out, back of throat down. This is a method in the
"don't relax" category that has some merit. You can actually practice
and exercise the muscles. Sticking your tongue way out while pressing
the back of your tongue down gives his voluptuous penis a little more
room, meaning less pressure to your gag triggers. You can actually
practice this, getting the tongue to press down, without penis. Or you
can practice it with a dildo (see below)..."
[And now for part 2:]
Step seven: Working out your skills on a dildo before gobbling up a
real cock has one serious advantage; it will rescue him from your
teeth. Some suckers will find that the surprises and reflexes of deep
throating make them instinctively or unconsciously let up on the tooth
guard, much to their suckee's pain. A dildo gives you complete control
(which might not be the case with a dom and his live member). Having
control will help you feel comfortable with the basics, which is
probably a better starting place for submissive deep throating.
Go slow. Edge the dildo in further and further, and if you have a
sudden reactive spasm that makes you clamp down like a pit bull, no
harm done.
As soono as you understand your physical responses, feel free to
trade the cold, unresponsive dildo for the fleshy warm penis attached
to your lover. If you get frustrated or you want to strengthen your
tongue and jaw muscles with practice, the dildo will be there waiting
for you.
Step eight: Go slow; back off as needed. Do yourself a favor and
count on not getting his dick all the way down your throat the first
time. Especially if you're feeling timid or you're not sure what's in
it for you. You may find the gag response startling the first few or
dozens of times you come across it. If the process becomes more
discomfort than thrill, back off. And when you do, let him play with
your nipples or any other zone that drives you wild.
When you return from this type of short break, you'll be surprised
to find you're able to swallow more of his penis than before before
tripping off your gag response. Work at getting into it. Slime him,
lick him, eat him, ravish him, tell yourself how badly you want every
little bit of him right down to the pubic hairs at the base of his cock
and think: Gobble, gobble, gobble. Oh, yes, mighty suckers, be
ravenous. It works.
Step nine: Take deep breaths. Really, no one needs to tell you
this. You will see rather plainly that as you're swallowing his dick,
you are not breathing. This is one of the little miracles of your human
physiology, which happens to keep you from choking every time you take
a gulp of coffee or a swallow of grilled chicken. Your breathing system
closes off so your swallowing system can do its thing. What this means
in terms of deep throating is that you do have to come up for air.
Trust me, you'll learn to take deep breaths without coaching. This is
just to let you know what's in store and that it's all normal and fine.
Step ten: Actually a caveat: Don't do this on a full stomach. I've been there and it's not pretty.
OK, now once you get this down, you're really going to be feeling
like the bomb. In your elation, you may even start looking for some
advanced tricks. If that's the case, this next section is just the
thing for you.
Advanced trick number one: As you've got his penis head stuffed
down your throat, swallow. Swallow in rhythm, swallow hard, swallow
soft. The most sensitive part of his penis, the head and its corona,
will be situated right about there, where your mouth is tightly
squeezing.
Advanced trick number two: Tongue him. Force your tongue out there
as he's down your throat and move it against his shaft, and if you can
reach, lick his balls. If you're deep throating him, you've probably
already got him moaning -- this may get him to shiver.
Advanced trick number three: Hum a little tune while he's all the
way in. His cock will vibrate (and may even want to sing along).
Advance trick number four: Don't forget your hands. When first
learning to deep throat, you'll find it all-engrossing. You will be so
absorbed with the feelings, the scents (as your nose presses into his
musky pubic area), that the rest of his body may not cross your mind
much. But as the act of deep throating becomes more second nature, you
will be able to command your hands again, and they'll be able to roam
free. Give them some scouting missions. His asshole might be an obvious
place for your fingers to wander to. Chances are a lot of cum has
dribbled down his cock, over his perineum and landed in a reservoir you
can tap, somewhere near his anus. Use this lube and your finger to
excite the nerve endings on his rim, or to seek out the fleshy,
pleasurable prostate just inside his back door. Or...grab his nipples,
fondle his balls, whatever occurs to you. You may only have one hand
free, but take advantage of it.
Advanced trick number five: Swallow his load. If you have him deep
in your throat when he's about to shoot, you can easily take his load
-- and without tasting it. I don't want to suggest this is a good thing
-- no one wants to think that their lover doesn't like their taste, but
let's face it, some of us, secretly perhaps, just can't warm up to the
taste of cum. If you are one of these people, then this little swallow
trick could be your saving grace. So tuck it away for future use.
Hopefully, these tips will help you take a man in your mouth and
swallow him whole. They're a compilation of successful methods used by
those of us who love to give rod a deep ride. Still, you may have to
adapt the ideas as you go along to match your and your partner's
tastes, shapes, and configurations. Take your time. Experiment.
And finally, the one overriding path to success when it comes to deep throating your man's penis: You gotta love it.
submitted on 9/8/2004 |
